Arguing and deescalating an argument

Discussion Topics

1. What does it mean to be ‘good at arguing’? Is this a positive or negative trait? Are you usually a winner in arguments?
2. Why do you think people argue? Are there any good things about arguing?
3. Do you think it’s impossible to avoid arguments if you feel passionate about your beliefs?
4. Do you think it’s disrespectful to argue with older people?
5. Do you ever play ‘the devil’s advocate’ in an argument? Why do you think some people like to do it?

1. Do you get along with argumentative people? Are you an argumentative person? How often do you argue with people?
2. How do you avoid arguments? What deescalating strategies do you use?
3. How do you feel when someone disagrees with everything you have to say? Are you quick to get angry?
4. Have you ever lost a friend because of an argument?
5. Do you bear a grudge for a long time? Are you vindictive or forgiving after an argument or after falling out with someone?